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Live Webinar
September 5, 2025
9:00 am - 1:00 pm
Central Standard Time (CST)
Dealing with issues of narcissism in the intimate relationship poses an additional challenge in the treatment room, where the narcissist’s typical approval seeking, entitled, controlling, “victim/martyr”, and passive-aggressive reactions and behaviors, are often paired with a partner who becomes burdened by the newly awakened or reawakened challenges of self- doubt, self-diminishment, subjugation, and self-sacrifice.
Narcissists are notorious for their denial, defensiveness, devaluation, and defiantly detached reactions when confronted about betraying, controlling, and gaslighting behaviors, along with other hurtful patterns that arise in their intimate relationship. Restoring trust and intimacy can seem like an overwhelming and insurmountable endeavor. The stakes are high. Weighing the consequences of staying with or leaving the narcissist can be complex. The impact on financial security and the well-being of children, as well as the offended partner’s health and wellness are often the collateral damage of long-term coercive control and gaslighting. The looming question: Is it even possible to heal trust after narcissistically driven betrayal, gaslighting, and
coercive control?
Schema therapy offers an effective conceptualization and treatment protocol; one that does not insist on exclusive conjoint work. This approach appreciates the fragility (and possible unsafety) of high stakes relationships and the need for a flexible approach, where individual treatment and conjoint treatment are part of a carefully timed and integrated plan. At the center of the work is the need to deconstruct a toxic narrative that has deleterious effects on the relationship, the family, and perhaps continues to perpetuate a perilous legacy for generations.
Attendance and Location Details
Date and Time
**This is a 4-CE online seminar delivered virtually in real-time via an industry-standard webinar platform**
Friday, September 5, 2025 9:00am to 1:00pm CST / 10:00am to 2:00pm EST / 7:00am to 11:00am PST
*Live Webinar Attendees: Zoom link and course materials will be made available to you 24-48 hours prior to event date
Agenda:
9:00am – 10:15am: Narcissistic traits and coping modes, assessing for betrayal trauma, and identifying attachment ruptures.
10:15am – 11:30am: Treatment strategies, listening for schema modes, and responding to each mode.
11:30am – 11:45am: Break
11:45am – 1:00pm: Identifying therapists’ personal triggers, defusing those triggers, and developing empathic confrontation and the therapeutic relationship to drive change.
Objectives:
This training will provide participants clinical knowledge and tools to:
a). After completing this training, participants will be able to identify narcissistic traits and coping modes, including coercive control and gaslighting.
b). After completing this training, participants will be able to assess for betrayal trauma and potential need for full disclosure by hypersexual partner.
c). After completing this training, participants will be able to identify attachment ruptures and activating conditions in the cycles of conflict.
d). After completing this training, participants will be able to address dysfunctional mode cycle clashes and conflict activations using emotion-focused strategies, CBT strategies, and the essential therapy relationship, aimed at healing schemas, bypassing self-defeating patterns, and meeting frustrated core unmet needs.
e). After completing this training, participants will be able to listen for and discern modes of anger (bullying, resentful adult, defiantly detached or childlike victim) as linked with schemas and early experiences / unmet needs.
f). After completing this training, participants will be able to respond to each mode: ventilating, reality testing, setting limits, holding accountable, adapting expressions of anger with healthy adult mode engagement.
g). After completing this training, participants will be able to be aware of physical cues that indicate your own personal triggers impeding progress.
i). After completing this training, participants will be able to identify and defuse your emotional triggers and shift into a sturdy stance.
j). After completing this training, participants will be able to apply therapy relationship strategies, as well as empathic confrontation and limit-setting to help clients reflect on and replace self-defeating reactions with healthy and adaptive responses.
Target Audience:
The target audience for this live webinar event includes psychologists, social workers, counselors, MFT’s, and other clinical mental health professionals.
Instructional Level: Intermediate
Instructor(s): Wendy Behary, MSW, LCSW
Material Author(s): Wendy Behary, MSW, LCSW
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- Course materials (including the link to view the scheduled live webinar) are made available to all registered attendees 24-48 hours before the event start time.
- This training is interactive and provides opportunities to ask direct questions to the trainer as well as request immediate help from staff if needed. The attendee will view the presentation in real-time from their connected device via an industry-standard internet webinar platform.
CE Approvals:
Online CE Credits has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 6795. Programs that do not quality for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Online CE Credits is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.
Mind Works Professional Education, Inc. DBA Online CE Credits, #1974, is approved as an ACE provider to offer social work continuing education by the Association of Social Work Boards (ASWB) Approved Continuing Education (ACE) program. Regulatory boards are the final authority on courses accepted for continuing education credit. ACE provider approval period: July 23, 2024 – July 23, 2025. Social workers completing this course receive [see advertisement] live interactive webinar continuing education credits.
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